Lie,pain and you

When you are a child,you believe what adults tell you.You tend to idealize people and situations.And then,when you become an adult,you fall from high above because you realize that you've been cheated,you've been taken for a fool.Never take a child for granted.It destroys his future.Call a cat,a cat.I believe a child needs magic,not tragic.And I believe magic is in a starry sky,in a piece of art,in a good story..but not in "Happily ever after" craps from relatives who do not believe in it themselves.Some children are highly receptive and sensitive,they tend to create their own world and barricate themselves in an illusion,which can be really harmful when grown up.In the way they see others and the world for instance.In the value they place upon relationships too.We are as we are,but what made us who we are?

Thankfully,when you got back your own voice,your own values,then you can break up with all that nonsense and act to create your life instead of waiting for a "Savior"that will make it all right(another lie).Life is what you make of it.You are in charge of fixing your heart and shaping your brain.But I do believe that a lot of pain would be avoided if adults weren't taken children for fools.Lying does not protect anyone.It does more harm.Then,if you cannot do without,because you've been fooled yourself too,there are still late apologies though.

There is the lie you are taught and there is the lie you create,because a lie is often better than reality.All of these make a coward adult,someone who will always run away from his responsabilities.He will do drugs,he will never stop running to avoid thinking,he will live the lie his parents taught him,he will never finish what he started,he will always fear staying on his own,he will buy and buy to fullfill that hole in his heart,he will look for everyone to love him because he cannot love himself...whatever he will do,he will be caught in the past. A lie is the perfect killer.Perfection is a lie.

I am not better than another one,I just stopped believing in the lie and started believing in myself.

Give it a try.

It takes pain to break up with pain,but trust me when this temporary pain is gone,the permanent one will too and this,forever.

Candie